Why we should bring a little sex toy in our bedrooms
In a reference to a candid opinion, couples often ask themselves rhetorical questions like where the passion in their relationship is, what went wrong, etc. When they first met, they couldn’t get enough of each other and now, a few years down the line, the very spark that attracted them to one another is no longer there. But the answer is that the Passion in their relationship is lost due to our own doing. As the relationship grows, the couples become content, their focus shifts to their individual jobs, the kids, paying bills, planning the next holiday, social gathering etc.
When marriage becomes stale, the spark begins to become extinguished and with this, their sex life tends to become boring. To some couples the reason that their marriages are bad is only because of their love lives. But the fact remains that many problems start in the sex and bedroom area than any other area in a marriage.
If you marriage has become stale and boring, you need to start spicing it up a little. It is easy to forget about what you used to do for your partner, massage each other frequently, dress up for each other, play sexual games and incorporate sex toys to your sexual life. Most men these days seem to embrace the toys and the really knowledgeable men know that sex toys only make their jobs easier! Integrating a quiet vibrator into your lovemaking can make BAE EXTRA HAPPY. As I love to say, really savvy men know that sex toys do all of the heavy lifting for them. Below are other reason why you should use sex toys with your partner in the bedroom;
- They Take the Pressure Off Of You
Sometimes it’s hard to orgasm — no matter how giving your partner is. According to an Institute, 70 percent of women need some sort of clitoral stimulation in order to achieve orgasm. While stimulation of the clit can be achieved with fingers or the tongue, depending on your position, those might not be options. In reaching for that extra help from a vibrator, you’re taking the pressure to orgasm off of yourself, which can help open all kinds of doors to orgasm with your partner in general.
- They Take the Pressure Off Your Partner
No matter how long you’ve been with your partner, they’re never really going to be able to hit that spot the way you can when you’re masturbating. In bringing a sex toy or two (or more) to the bedroom, you will not only take the pressure off of yourself trying to achieve orgasm, but it will take the pressure off your partner, too. Sex will be relaxing and tingly, like it’s supposed to be, for both of you.
- Exploration Makes For Hotter Sex
Exploring new realms in your sexual relationship doesn’t just open up doors to things you never knew you could possibly enjoy, but creates an even greater sexual bond. Let’s be honest: You never forget the first person who handcuffed you to the bedpost.
- They Encourage You to Try New Positions
With all this exploration going on, you never know exactly what sort of twisted up positions in which you’ll find yourself. You are exposed to enough creativity and a sex toy as your guide, you might find there are more than that.
- They Can Help Bring Fantasies to Life
If you’ve always wanted to play the authoritative school teacher, there’s a whip for that. Or maybe you’ve been fantasizing about playing a police officer and handcuffing your partner to the bed ― whatever the case may be, dressing up, role playing, and using toys as your props is the best way to take the fantasies out of your head and into the real world.
As a last note, intimacy is there to be enjoyed and these moments should be embraced. Passion in a relationship should never become a chore. After all, if it’s a chore then it definitely cannot be called passion. “I only wish to be the fountain of love from which you drink, every drop promising eternal passion.