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How to get your boyfriend or husband to try a Sex Toy ...part 1
Posted on Wednesday May 22, 2013

How to get your boyfriend or husband to try a Sex Toy 

Part 1

I run into very many people in my travels. Most couples I speak with that do not use sex toys of any kind or do not engage in any type of kinky activity is because of one of them but almost never both. Today I am focusing on opening up the male in the relationship to trying some type of couples sex toy.

When most guys think about sextoys growing up, its like a big joke. All of their friends joke around about it. "Hey Al, I heard your girlfriend was banging you out with her dildo last night!", they might say. And all of his friends laugh. Very different from the dildo conversations ladies have with their friends. Because of this, most of the time a stigma develops and the guy may have a few convictions  going on about buying or trying an adult novelty which may not be entirely true:

1. He may think he is gay if he uses any types of sex toys.
2. He may feel like if he uses any types of sexual aids that he is unable to get the job done himself
3. It is possible that he is just reserved, having a very conservative background where Sextoys are taboo.

All of these obstacles are valid points but we can break them down to try and figure out how to overcome them and move that relationship forward.

Feeling a little fruity

The gay movement has come a long way over the past few decades. Anyone who grew up in the 80's or prior to that will tell you that being gay now is much safer then being gay then. When I was in high school and middle school, and even in elementary school, guys would get into fights all the time and call each other gay to piss each other off. It was almost considered fighting words back then. And I grew up in a very diverse and educated area. I'm sure there are areas that are still living in the past where you can still piss someone off just by calling him gay if he isn't ( and even more likely if he is in denial).

My point here is that some guys are still sensitive to this so when suggesting something. Even having something that resembles a penis in your bed, unless its his, can make him uncomfortable. So start small. Get some lube samples from your local sex toy store or online sex shop. Most will throw some in with any purchase, so next time you buy your next sex toy, email the service department and ask them for some lube samples. I recommend a silicone lube because its silky smooth and goes with almost anything. Moystoys.com will throw in samples for all online orders over $20.

So once you have your lube samples, have them handy for the next time you get together for some sexual fun. keep them under the bed or behind the pillow for easy access. Mention that your friend  from work or something gave you some samples to try out. Tell him that she was raving about this stuff she used with her bf and they had the best sex ever ( that's a marketing tactic used in commercials. they are doing it so it must be ok for us to do it!!!). try out the different lubes and find out the ones he likes too.

After that, Move him up to stimulating gels. Maybe get him a small cock ring to try. Disposables are great because they are cheap and simple. unless he asks, stay away from his butthole. If he was afraid of feeling fruity with sextoys, he will definitely need some easing into for the butt. Just take things slow. try something out for a week  or a month, then move up to something new.

Also,  wear something sexy but make sure its something he finds irresistible and not just you. a sexy outfit can easily make him forget that sex toys will make him gay when he has his dreamgirl right in front of him. Go to some lingerie sites and ask him what he likes. keep it simple yes and no's too. He doesn't want to offend you by saying that another girl looks great in an outfit. He wants you to know that you would look great in the outfit. so use it to gather info about his taste in lingerie. most lingerie models are beautiful or at least are photo shopped to be. This should help introduce him to whatever you want him to try.

We will continue with the rest of this 2 part article. Stay tuned.


Jordan Night
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Big Dildo Cake
Posted on Wednesday May 08, 2013

 Big Dildo Cake

Here is a great cake that actor James Franco received for his birthday. complete with big dildos, anal beads, a ball gag, and a flogger. All great sex toys for men. I only see 2 candles though he must have just turned 20. Congratulations!! we cant help you build a cake like this but we do have big dick cake pans at moystoys.com. click on the cake to see one of our our dick cake pans. type cake in our search engine to find all of the sizes and shapes available. Great for bachelorette parties!!!

Jordan Night
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Stolen sex toys from the set of "Pain and Gain" movie
Posted on Wednesday May 08, 2013

 According to this article, Movie maker Michael Bay told interviewers that sex toys went missing from the set. In the movie "Pain and Gain", they spent about $75,000 on assorted small and big sex toys for one of the sets. They were going to return them but the sex toys started to disappear. The scene was from the middle part of the movie and apparently had mostly Male sex toys in a warehouse. I would have like to see the faces of the cast members walking into work that day


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Is the Rude boy vibrator for men or women??
Posted on Tuesday May 07, 2013

Are You a Rude Boy???

This Large vibrator is actually a dual P-Spot stimulator.

The unique design takes care of the prostate and perineum massage hands free, leaving your hands free to play with yourself or your partner!

The Rude-Boy vibrator is 100% waterproof, so you canuse it in the bathtub or shower.  Its Powerful!!1 Its Silent!!!the Rocks off company uses their  RO-80MM bullet vibe.

This prostate vibrator does include a Battery.The rude boy is an anal vibrator but can also be used for women too!! Also hands free for women it is just marketed more for men.



This is a sexy safe toy for everyone!

Your naughty one,
Jordan Night
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Good quality and sexy fun cuffs to start out with!!
Posted on Tuesday May 07, 2013

Good quality and sexy fun cuffs to start out with!! 

Wanting to explore the world of bondage???

The Beginner's Handcuff from Sex and Mischief is a perfect way to get started! Use Womens and Mens fetish wear for role play and other bondage activities.

Tie your partner up and tease every inch of their body... Made of super soft material, you can have painless seduction. 

So much fun, you'll want to play adult bondage games all day! Don't let your lover get away! It includes 2 soft velboa cuffs with easy on, easy off closures, and 2 snap link connectors. Bend Me Shape Me Anyway You Want... I was by no means a beginner yet every now he would tell me to bring out the Beginner's Cuffs, and I, as ever, dutifully obliged... 

He delighted in seeing how many different positions he could mold my body, and I enjoyed the intense pleasure these positions brought him. I knew the importance of a daily stretching routine, because the importance of nightly stretching was paramount to our creative role play.

Mmmm, yeah.... Try it for yourselves... it becomes addictive..


Your naughty cuffed up gal,
Jordan Night

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